Don’t criticize others unless you want others to criticize you.
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Proverb: People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones
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Admit it! You enjoy criticizing others when they make a mistake as much as I do.
We both need to remember that people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
I know that sounds strange because living in a glass house would make it extremely awkward to take a shower or have any privacy.
That is beside the point.
This is a proverb, and it means if you are vulnerable to criticism, you should not criticize others.
I have news for you. No one is perfect.
We all make mistakes, yes, even me. Actually, especially me.
That’s why I try to check, double-check and triple-check everything.
My mother always told me that I should never criticize anyone unless I had never made a mistake.
You see, criticism is a boomerang; it comes back to you.
If at work you sternly criticize someone for making a silly mistake, I guarantee you; you will sooner or later make a dumb mistake too.
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When people who live in glass houses throw stones, they damage themselves two ways.
First, they highlight themselves as an A-hole, then they open themselves up for criticism when they make the same or a similar mistake.
Wisdom is passed down to us from our ancestors through proverbs or learning the hard way.
Let me tell you a secret – the hard way is hard.
Listen to the proverb, people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
The next time you feel like yelling at someone for doing a stupid thing, think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
Be nice. You may still be an A-hole, but you’ll be a nice one.
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